My four year old has attitude. Lots and lots of attitude. She can already twist what I say and throw it back at me. For instance, she has been saying "hate" and "I don't care" lately. Those are bad words in our house and I tell her that, and give her other words she can use. The other day she said, "Mom, I bad word my shoes!" I told her that it still wasn't nice to speak that way. She turned around and said, "I don't bad word!"